Elizabeth Forel, Coalition to
Ban Horse Drawn Carriages
August 2018
Sylvestrina was the sweetest cat ever – made out of spun sugar.
Sylvestra had the cutest tail that turned back on itself.
I said goodbye to my little Sylvestra yesterday. Poor baby was suffering from severe heart and kidney failure and was having trouble breathing. I would like to honor her here. She was 16 years old – a beautiful tuxedo black and white little cat.
Sylvestra came through the basement window of my high-rise apartment
building in Manhattan 15 years ago. I took her in with the intention of
finding her a home. She was semi feral and I had to put her in a large cage.
But one thing led to another and I fell in love. I thought this little black
and white cat was a male – she looked so much like my cat SnagglePuss who
had died several years before. So I called her Sylvester. But soon enough I
learned she was a little girl and my friend Debby suggested Sylvestra. It
stuck.
The weird thing about her arriving is that sometime before - not even a
year, I acquired a print of a black and white tuxedo cat. I am not sure why
I bought it but it called out to me. And then months later, she came into my
life.
I also called her Sylvestrina Petunia Petunia Petunia – and sang the Tickle
song to her with made-up rhyming words that she seemed to love as I would
pick her up and rub her belly. This is how it began – “tickle, tickle,
tickle, Sylvestra had a nickel. She rode her motorsickle up the street to
buy a pickle; (and so on)” We had fun.
Sylvestrina was the sweetest cat ever – made out of spun sugar. She loved
other cats and was so gentle with everyone. My Oliver died in 2015 and he
gave her a hard time - she was 6 pounds to his 12. He would chase her into
corners. But after that, it was bittersweet because Sylvestra found her own
and would come out and play and greet people. She became confident. Her cat
sitter, Beverly, said it was “Sylvestra Time.” I am glad she had these three
years to blossom.
When Sylvestra’s pal Auntie Minnie died several years ago, there was only
Oliver so I decided to get a cat for Sylvestra. It was the first time ever
that I had to choose a cat (they had always found me) and I adopted Tabitha
from City Critters. Although Sylvestra loved Tabitha, Tabitha was the alpha
cat and just tolerated her. Still, Sylvestra was not afraid and continued to
blossom. And sometimes they even chased each other around the apartment.
One of my favorite recent Sylvestra stories happened a few years ago. She
needed to have extensive dental work (resorption) and I brought her into the
vet’s office in the early morning after having her fast since the night
before. Unfortunately, they did not take her until later in the day . When I
went to pick her up, she was groggy and swaddled in a towel. The vet said to
put her in a warm place and let her rest and not feed her for a while. Well
– Sylvestra was having none of that. As soon as I got her home, she tore off
the towel and made a beeline for the food bowl and did not come up for air
for 10 minutes. She was starved. She finally raised her head with food all
over her face. So cute. I did not have the heart to remove the food. Luckily
she did not throw up.
As she began to get sick, she still liked to come out on the terrace with me
and sit on my lap – something I cherished. She also would come out into the
hall when I got home – walking up and down exploring, turning over on her
back, rubbing herself on the carpet and letting me rub her belly. This was
when I saw that while she still loved this activity, she had very labored
breathing. Very very upsetting but I pretty much knew it was time.
So now it is just me and Tabitha, trying to find our way as family dynamics
change. My heart has a big hole and I miss my little girl so much.
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